Love and let go?

"I love you but i'm sorry there is nothing i can do,let's just quit and be friends"



Friends? I think not! He didn't show up for my call to bar party,says when coming back from the ceremony i didn't update him on movement as per the party that i relegated him to the background and showed he was not my priority(for God sakes i had too many things going on,it was my day of glory,pple wer calling me,waiting for me at the house and we planned this together!) so i was supposed to do what?my mum wonders why? She hears gist of fights we had before from my siblings and that he said "it was cos of my stupidity he didn't come for my party,that day is gone now and there's nothing i can do to bring it back" she says no way,the guy don't respect you enough. I said couples must fight,not showing up at my party was gross but then he apologised,i forgave,no need crying over spilt milk,yea? But then,mom says no way,sis beefs and i stupidly told him(yea,i know...no information management) well,things escalate,mom shuts down,he shuts down,no more communication and i say to him,call mom and explain why you were not there,he says no,he can't and won't,(why do they all sudddenly hate him cos he was not at the party?he does not need to kiss ass to show he loves me or deserves her daughter and since i'm cool with his folks and he not with

mine hence the above quote from him tonight. he says mom never liked him,she just used call to bar party as an excuse,imagine that?



He asks or do i have an alternative solution?me?how? When he's made up his mind? I said no,he says lets talk about it,what's left to tslk about? We have talked,fought,i have even begged (don't know why or for what) but it has got us nowhere. My mum is expecting him to call and explain(why,it was my party,abi?) He is not going to call and to him,she hates him and will always be a factor in the relationship so he breaks up with me though he is with me and not her(i don't get it)



Right now,i'm just numb,really don't know what to think or say. But then,if he loves me so much,am i not worth swallowing his pride for to call mom? Do you love so much and let go cos you can't 'kiss ass',is that how love plays out? Should you not fight,kiss ass if you have to to get your desired love or am i just being impractical and romantic? I'm confused,help!