Bolder moves these days?

Hi ma Pips of blogsville, i am so grateful to you guys for your comments on my post of "Love and Let go?". You all encouraged me especially when i read the comments by Scribz and Roc seeing from the guys' point of view so it didn't feel like the girls were just being chauvinistic.

well,he finally agreed to call her which he has not done but then i let sleeping dogs lie until yesterday when he agreed that this weekend, sunday precisely which i s mother's day is actually a good time to call her and mend fences,boy! was i relieved? Meanwhile let me back up a few steps to let you guys know how we got there.

I travelled out of town on wednesday for a matter and came back yesterday so after work i went to see a colleague who just had a baby and then went home,ate,bathed,donned on a nightie only with some plan in my head and waited for my baby to come.

He did and we hugged,pecked and were talking. He started running his hands all over me and was like "are you wearing anything under this nightgown?" and i'm like "do you want to comfirm?" he gives me that look and i say let's sit in the car and we did.

We continued to kiss and grope and before we knew it,it all got heated up and then he starts to look around asking sure you wanna do this,we are in front of your house and i said hey,its dark(of course there was no light even though with all sense of modesty i'm supposed to be living in one of the top shots areas in abuja) Anyways,no light so the street lights were off so it was kinda dark. Hell,i want to,its been a while so we did it(sure you guys don't want details) we get enough of that from sexkitten and co... Well it was beautiful,long enough and real hot!(you can imagine) then we lay there spent,sated and that's when people started passin g by.

It was crazy and fun and i loved every bit of it so we adjusted all that needed to be adjusted and i confessed that this was on my mind all along and he says "wow!you got me there but it was madly sweet" and that's when i chipped in the mom stuff and it worked like magic! He said i could have just said it and he would still have agreed but i made him know that it wasn't cos of that,i just wanted to DO it! Anyways i think it was an added advantage. For me,that was bold and one of the most adventuous steps i've taken. Kinda proud of me. Lol.

What do you say girls? The way to a man's heart is not only through his stomach,abi?

Love and let go?

"I love you but i'm sorry there is nothing i can do,let's just quit and be friends"



Friends? I think not! He didn't show up for my call to bar party,says when coming back from the ceremony i didn't update him on movement as per the party that i relegated him to the background and showed he was not my priority(for God sakes i had too many things going on,it was my day of glory,pple wer calling me,waiting for me at the house and we planned this together!) so i was supposed to do what?my mum wonders why? She hears gist of fights we had before from my siblings and that he said "it was cos of my stupidity he didn't come for my party,that day is gone now and there's nothing i can do to bring it back" she says no way,the guy don't respect you enough. I said couples must fight,not showing up at my party was gross but then he apologised,i forgave,no need crying over spilt milk,yea? But then,mom says no way,sis beefs and i stupidly told him(yea,i know...no information management) well,things escalate,mom shuts down,he shuts down,no more communication and i say to him,call mom and explain why you were not there,he says no,he can't and won't,(why do they all sudddenly hate him cos he was not at the party?he does not need to kiss ass to show he loves me or deserves her daughter and since i'm cool with his folks and he not with

mine hence the above quote from him tonight. he says mom never liked him,she just used call to bar party as an excuse,imagine that?



He asks or do i have an alternative solution?me?how? When he's made up his mind? I said no,he says lets talk about it,what's left to tslk about? We have talked,fought,i have even begged (don't know why or for what) but it has got us nowhere. My mum is expecting him to call and explain(why,it was my party,abi?) He is not going to call and to him,she hates him and will always be a factor in the relationship so he breaks up with me though he is with me and not her(i don't get it)



Right now,i'm just numb,really don't know what to think or say. But then,if he loves me so much,am i not worth swallowing his pride for to call mom? Do you love so much and let go cos you can't 'kiss ass',is that how love plays out? Should you not fight,kiss ass if you have to to get your desired love or am i just being impractical and romantic? I'm confused,help!