Monday, September 13, 2010

Just Talk

Finally made it back here, whew! Remember my last post 'life and it complications'? Happens that my sister got married to Mr not really married and yours truly was chief bridesmaid! It was a good wedding and i think they are making a good marriage out of the whole thing. I wish them the very best.

Now what i do not like is everyone telling me so you are next,(well i don't mind the ones that pray for me that mine will be great too) when is it happening? i mean, really will they be the one to spend the money at the wedding?They wont even let us rest from the spending of this one plus who said i have someone to marry sef and even if i do, will i be the one to determine it. We all know how it works out here mehn, man does the proposal, girl accepts then we set it all in motion, meeting the parents, picking a date and generally preparing but if he does not propose, wetin i go do nah?!These people should just let me be jare with marriage talk just cos my sister is married. I doubt if they are all going to be at my wedding anyway cos if its with who i am planning (oh yes, i am planning and that's another day's post,*wink)then we are having a parlour something and that means all that crowd won't be there(less money to be spent) In any case, they have jollied at my sister's own so no show dis time,Lol! Well enough of the rantings.

Meanwhile, how come married men have become so shameless these days even the young married ones like late thirties to early forties are now into extra marital affairs! I mean, is that how fast it is to get bored in marriage or is it the women that are not appealing enough or is it the man that is just hard to satisfy or... i just can't help but wonder. Imagine a nice looking young man with two cute kids whose ages together does not amount to 12 years out toasting babe,why? The annoying part is he proudly showed me his kids pictures and his wife's,yet... and then my father's friend??? Old enough to be my father? At some point in my old life, i would have played along, chopped his money and dumped him in a particularly rude way but now it just pisses me off and i can barely stand to listen to the ramblings of a shameless man.

Well... i really cannot understand


5 comments:

leggy said...

i hope everything works out for your sister.
i want a big wedding.i couldnt do a small one.

Apinke said...

nice to have u back dear!

i want a big wedding too. u? small wedding? HA HA HA! u know thats not possible. am personally bringing 20 people at least.

U just learn to ignore those people with a smile, if any one of them knows where they sell husbands pls follow them and go and buy the man of ur dreams, rubbish!

Apinke said...

ok, ur previous post b4 u disappeared was written in.... Greek?
Pls translate? Wld love to get the pre-wedding gist.

waiting........

Luscious LU said...

@ Omotee! That post was in English nah! Its too gruelling telling it all over again o. Will gist you in person later jare.

You'll be surprised bout my wedding but then you have exclusive invite no matter how small as you are now my iyawo to be*wink but you cannot bring anyone else!!!

@leggy Thanks! Go ahead and have the wedding of your dreams,wanted a big wedding too but now...not anymore just do what will make you happy! Its once in a lifetime

Myne said...

Saw your comment on LG and decided to check you out...